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31 January 2007 @ 11:30 pm
FRIENDS ONLY  







I went back to friends only. This LJ is completely off-limits to my RL friends. I like having this place private. I've been going around loads of places, logging on LJ this last year, so I prefer having it Friends Only as a safety precaution.

All fic, icon, music video, color bar, brush, gradient, texture, etc. are now at improvedsilence.



If you want to friend me...

I am bisexual. I don't talk much about it, but I am so if you can't deal with it, don't friend me, no harm, no foul. I'm a generally happy person but this journal is where I vent when I'm depressed so you usually get to see the worst side of me.

I don't comment all the time. When I read my f-list, I read every entry without skipping and comment when I have something to say. If you don't say anything in mine, it doesn't mean that I won't comment in yours. I don't work that way. I have also de-friended some people because I felt we hadn't had anything in common in over a year. I also do not beg anyone to keep me on their f-list. If you make a friends-cut post, I will not comment, no matter who you are. I expect people who want me on their f-list will keep me on their f-list, without my having to beg.

So if all of this sounds good to you, comment here and I'll probably add you back -- as long as we have something in common.



 
 
 
take me to the place where you go: i want to be a great big elephant!la_cienega on September 14th, 2004 06:09 pm (UTC)
look! gilmore girls!
um. hi. i'm kitty. *waves* nicetameetcha.

are we friends now? ;P
who? me?darwnst_memoirs on September 14th, 2004 09:26 pm (UTC)
hellooooo

anyone home? *waves*

*love* Luke and Lorelai!
Catboutondor on September 18th, 2004 01:32 pm (UTC)
Dude you never update your LJ. What the hell is up with that?
nocturnal dysfunctional: Caffeinatedduskdescending on September 14th, 2004 11:23 pm (UTC)
i always feel i should know what people are talking about when they discuss "gilmore girls".

please say you still love me, or i'll cry.
Chelsea: Jack/Kate - Island feverchelsea0403 on April 10th, 2005 05:04 am (UTC)
Hi, I have added you, hope you don't mind. Just couldn't pass up adding a fellow jack/kate and logan/veronica shipper, not to mention icon maker.
Cat: Natalieboutondor on April 10th, 2005 10:39 am (UTC)
Not at all. Will add you back. I love your icons! You're so talented.
- chelsea0403 on April 10th, 2005 05:17 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Lindalindakins on April 12th, 2005 06:53 am (UTC)
Because I am loving your fics, icons and VM videos! Plus, I can teach you Vietnamse if you want! ;)
Cat: Veronica Mars // Life Sucksboutondor on April 12th, 2005 12:31 pm (UTC)
You're vietnamese? That alone makes you my favorite person on my LJ friend list :)

My vietnamese absolutely sucks. I can say a few things like Thua Bac (not even sure on the spelling here), Ban khoe khong?, Toi ten la Cat, and I can count to ten. I catch a few things here and there when people speak it. Well I used to anyway, I'm not sure anymore.
- lindakins on April 13th, 2005 11:54 pm (UTC) (Expand)
take heart, sweetheartaliice on April 14th, 2005 10:09 am (UTC)
I love your fics and icons, I've actually been lurking for a while, now. I hope you won't mind that I added you? I love Jack/Kate, Logan/Veronica, Lost, and I'm obsessed with the Clash!
Cat: Lost // Jack & Kate Kissboutondor on April 14th, 2005 12:55 pm (UTC)
I love your icons as well! You're so talented! And a Clash fan as well? Totally adding you :D
wickedripeplum: jean grey killwickedripeplum on April 18th, 2005 07:40 am (UTC)
Got your name from you taking one of my texture sets. Anyway, I've decided I should friend more fannish Montreal people, so I'm adding you.
Catboutondor on April 18th, 2005 11:58 am (UTC)
You're the one who made those Aurora Borealis textures :) I love those. I haven't used them yet, but I will soon. I'm friending you back.
Michelle: BEN -N- JERRYmichelle62998 on May 7th, 2005 05:26 pm (UTC)
I added you to my flist. You can add me back if u want, or not, doesn't really matter. I just wanted to keep track of all your wonderful graphics and vids and stuff. You're very talented and I didn't want to miss anything! lol I'm a graphics freak myself, majoring in multimedia at ITT. Anywho, that's all. lol
Cat: Veronica Mars // Smiling at Crazy Peopleboutondor on May 9th, 2005 02:05 am (UTC)
I checked your user info - which was totally familiar by the way ;) - and I'm not into Smallville or into boys bands but totally friending you back for that Bush countdown :D
- michelle62998 on May 9th, 2005 03:22 am (UTC) (Expand)
- boutondor on May 9th, 2005 10:03 am (UTC) (Expand)
- michelle62998 on May 9th, 2005 02:19 pm (UTC) (Expand)
I am the ambassador of fucking-kick-your-assador_sonita_ on May 23rd, 2005 03:33 pm (UTC)
givin sum luv
heyy ya dont know me... but i defi know ya lol i so totally luv ur site.. Cats Stuff... found it awhile ago... luv the lost section with the icons, wallpapers and vids... all so yummy :D

anyhoo... i luv ur layout and stuf... and i was wonderin that when ur not so busy... if ya cud make me sumkinda cool Kate/Jack banner to put as my LJ pic... cuz im havin tiny problems with my layout at the moment... and i totally luv ur pic...

oh and one more thing... ur fics totally kick ass... luv em all... are ya goin to continue the Brave New World fic any time soon? its real good... :)

aight well toodles :) hope to hear from ya :)
Sonita aka Sonia
Cat: Evangeline // Free To Be Meboutondor on May 23rd, 2005 03:58 pm (UTC)
Re: givin sum luv
Thank you for the compliments. My initial reaction to your request is to say yes but I absolutely suck when people request things from me. Making art becomes a burden because I'm afraid my art won't please the person who requested it and I don't enjoy doing it. And usually I never know what to do. I already saud yes to someone else and haven't been able to do anything. So here's what I'm going to do: if I feel inspired at some point, I'll make some banners, post them on my LJ and they will be up for grabs.

About Brave New World - I feel completely uninspired right now. I have written 10 chapters total, I just haven't posted them up yet because I can't continue beyond chapter 10 for some reason. Huge writer's block. I'll post the next chapter soon though, I promise.
Re: givin sum luv - _sonita_ on May 23rd, 2005 05:36 pm (UTC) (Expand)
And in that sound, everything will changeserenitys_star on May 24th, 2005 05:28 pm (UTC)
Hi- I just wanted to let you know that your default icon ("love forever") is beautiful. I hope it's okay that I'm snagging it. I will definitely give you credit when I use it. Thanks!
Cat: ER // This is Loveboutondor on May 30th, 2005 07:26 pm (UTC)
Of course! That's perfectly fine. I'm glad you like it.
Jenniferenglshangel on May 31st, 2005 09:47 pm (UTC)
Add me please? Jack and Kate fans stick together and all that! :)
Catboutondor on June 1st, 2005 06:01 pm (UTC)
I added you :)
Ivana Spankoffiamtheliquorr on July 10th, 2005 10:48 pm (UTC)
Hello
Hey, it's the other Cat aka QueenC4707 from the Fuselage... I haven't been on in a while since I've been Netless for a month. Anyway, I friended you since I like your Lost art and stories, and I just thought you'd like to know. :)
Catboutondor on July 14th, 2005 07:21 am (UTC)
Re: Hello
I'm very happy to friend you back. I haven't been on either. I was netless in Indonesia but I have access now that I've started to work (they have a Wi-Fi connection).
a_fallingstar_ on July 23rd, 2005 02:37 pm (UTC)
just wanted to let you know that i love your homepage & your lj design. its so beautiful :) maybe you can tell me what override you used pls?
Catboutondor on July 25th, 2005 08:11 am (UTC)
Well I'm on the compenent style and used a layout by pamelajoy, played a whole lot with it (doesn't really look like the original), and it gave me this!
- a_fallingstar_ on July 28th, 2005 04:17 pm (UTC) (Expand)
The Burninatorimthelobster on July 27th, 2005 05:41 pm (UTC)
Ummmhmmm. I found you through that friending meme, and booyah. Stargate buddy! MWAHAHAHAHAHA.
Amalthiaamothea on August 24th, 2005 02:31 am (UTC)
Hi I just recently found your icons and I wanted to use some for my LJ. I'm not sure where to credit your work though?
Cat: Stargate Atlantis // Heroboutondor on August 24th, 2005 10:02 am (UTC)
Okay when you upload your icons on your user pictures page, you can put something to identify your icon in the "keyword" section and then you can credit the person who made them in the "comments" section. I put - made by: <*lj user="boutondor"*> or whoever made the icon (minus the stars). This is what your user pictures page will look like. Hope that helps :)
- amothea on August 24th, 2005 02:59 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Amalthiaamothea on August 31st, 2005 11:37 pm (UTC)
I added you to my friends list because I love your icons and I really enjoyed your Daniel/Vala vid. :) thanks for sharing.
Amalthiaamothea on September 1st, 2005 01:34 am (UTC)
The rules say if I want you to friend me back I need to reply here....It's cool having more friends with common interests and I think we do share more than one interest. I also like Lost, Farscape, SGA, SG-1, Smallville, X-Files, writing (mostly fan fiction). I make music vids. :)

I'm also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and rape and I'm not afraid to speak about it either.
Cat: Stargate SG-1 // Above the Sunboutondor on September 1st, 2005 04:02 am (UTC)
The rules say if I want you to friend me back I need to reply here....

I ask for a comment here because I don't always notice when someone adds me or sometimes I have no idea where a person who friended me comes from...

It's cool having more friends with common interests and I think we do share more than one interest. I also like Lost, Farscape, SGA, SG-1, Smallville, X-Files, writing (mostly fan fiction). I make music vids. :)

I will definitely add you. I love to have people with common interests on my friends list. And I love music videos! I'm addicted :)

I'm also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and rape and I'm not afraid to speak about it either.

I'm kind of hypocritical about this one because some sexual abuse I've been victim of I'm not afraid and another one is just this huge weight I have and pretty much no one in my life (offline) knows about it...
Lisa Michelle: John/Aeryn love - bheerfanlmichelle599 on September 5th, 2005 10:14 pm (UTC)

Hey! I want to friend you because I love your Daniel/Vala icons and you're a John/Aeryn shipper. You also have Alias and X-Files as an interest. All my shows, too! :-)

PS. Are you sharing any of your John and Aeryn icons? Very hot.
Cat: Farscape // Lipsboutondor on September 5th, 2005 10:32 pm (UTC)
A Daniel/Vala AND a John/Aeryn shipper? I am so friending you back :D

Check my icons tag for my Farscape icons - click here

I'm currently making more D/V and Vala icons. They should be up tonight.
Mariannainsunshine on September 6th, 2005 04:44 pm (UTC)
I think you're pretty cool, and you are the maker of my default user pic, which I think was made with a stroke of genius. Way to capture the fact that they're waiting for answers that aren't going to come. AWESOME job.

Haha, anyway, I'm going to add you, and I hope you add me back.
Cat: Veronica Mars // Cryingboutondor on September 7th, 2005 12:32 am (UTC)
Thank you :)

I'm adding you back.
ohshocking: Atlantis - Shep/Weir - Sinfulohshocking on September 16th, 2005 02:35 pm (UTC)
Hey, just wanted to let you know I'm friending you :) as we seem to have quite a few interests in common. You don't have to friend me back if you don't want to, it's not a problem, I'll still be able to keep up with your awesome icons etc :D.
Cat: Farscape // Destinyboutondor on September 17th, 2005 02:48 pm (UTC)
When I have 300 people friending me, I'll stop friedning back, but since that's not going to happen anytime soon, I'm definitely friending you back. I like reading people's live. I guess I'm a voyeur lol.
- ohshocking on September 18th, 2005 08:57 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Melmissalee on September 24th, 2005 07:55 pm (UTC)
I would very much like to be added to your friends list! Awesome icons and I'll definitely be checking out the music videos.
Cat: Stargate Atlantis // Heroboutondor on September 24th, 2005 09:46 pm (UTC)
New friend! Added you :)
alexandria_kanaalexandria_kana on September 25th, 2005 12:10 am (UTC)
Friend List
I don't write alot in my journal, most of the time it's just my fanfic, but just looking at your shipping icons I vote for most, only exception is I have never seen Veronica Mars, so that one I have no idea about :)

I love your new Atlantis Vid, and am now trying to find your stories :) The last one I read was really good... the shower one :)

Anyway, hope you add me.

Alexandria_Kana
Cat: Farscape // Aeryn Aloneboutondor on September 25th, 2005 03:50 am (UTC)
Re: Friend List
I've noticed that people tend to ship the same couples :)

I'm glad you enjoyed my video - I'm going to make a new one soon. As for the fics, you won't find any because I've taken them all offline.

I'm adding you back :)

And I really like your icon...
pellucid: wants to kiss herpellucid on October 2nd, 2005 01:05 am (UTC)
Sorry for all the comment-spam in the past five minutes! I've loved your Atlantis stuff and your Daniel/Vala stuff, and now I'm loving your Farscape stuff--would you mind if I friended you? Friend back or not as you wish--I don't mind. ;)
Cat: Stargate SG-1 // Girlfriendsboutondor on October 2nd, 2005 03:37 am (UTC)
Of course I'll friend you back. I love new friends :)
icarus: Temptressicarus_abides on October 3rd, 2005 12:50 am (UTC)
Psst *nudges* I'm planning on friending you and would love for you to do it back if you feel so inclined.

Look at our similar interests yo. You love Farscape. I love Farscape. You're a Sparky fan. I'm a Sparky fan. You're bisexual. I'm... well, at the moment I'm still stuck at 'sexually confused'. But we'll see how that goes.

If you read this and have one of those 'omg, this girl is a freak (or retarded)' I won't take it personally if you don't want to friend me back ;)
Cat: Farscape // Yoursboutondor on October 3rd, 2005 01:02 pm (UTC)
That icon is all kinds of loveliness. You're funny :) I'm friending you right now.
lvp3: regretslvp3 on November 15th, 2005 02:28 pm (UTC)
Hey, I'm going to friend you, if that's okay. Feel free to friend me back if you'd like. :)
Cat: Stargate SG-1 // Vala Knows Betterboutondor on November 16th, 2005 12:41 pm (UTC)
Friended you back :) Welcome to my Friends List.

lol I can be stupid sometimes :D