I went back to friends only. This LJ is completely off-limits to my RL friends. I like having this place private. I've been going around loads of places, logging on LJ this last year, so I prefer having it Friends Only as a safety precaution.
If you want to friend me...
I am bisexual. I don't talk much about it, but I am so if you can't deal with it, don't friend me, no harm, no foul. I'm a generally happy person but this journal is where I vent when I'm depressed so you usually get to see the worst side of me.
I don't comment all the time. When I read my f-list, I read every entry without skipping and comment when I have something to say. If you don't say anything in mine, it doesn't mean that I won't comment in yours. I don't work that way. I have also de-friended some people because I felt we hadn't had anything in common in over a year. I also do not beg anyone to keep me on their f-list. If you make a friends-cut post, I will not comment, no matter who you are. I expect people who want me on their f-list will keep me on their f-list, without my having to beg.
So if all of this sounds good to you, comment here and I'll probably add you back -- as long as we have something in common.