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31 January 2007 @ 11:30 pm
FRIENDS ONLY  







I went back to friends only. This LJ is completely off-limits to my RL friends. I like having this place private. I've been going around loads of places, logging on LJ this last year, so I prefer having it Friends Only as a safety precaution.

All fic, icon, music video, color bar, brush, gradient, texture, etc. are now at improvedsilence.



If you want to friend me...

I am bisexual. I don't talk much about it, but I am so if you can't deal with it, don't friend me, no harm, no foul. I'm a generally happy person but this journal is where I vent when I'm depressed so you usually get to see the worst side of me.

I don't comment all the time. When I read my f-list, I read every entry without skipping and comment when I have something to say. If you don't say anything in mine, it doesn't mean that I won't comment in yours. I don't work that way. I have also de-friended some people because I felt we hadn't had anything in common in over a year. I also do not beg anyone to keep me on their f-list. If you make a friends-cut post, I will not comment, no matter who you are. I expect people who want me on their f-list will keep me on their f-list, without my having to beg.

So if all of this sounds good to you, comment here and I'll probably add you back -- as long as we have something in common.



 
 
 
Amalthiaamothea on August 31st, 2005 11:37 pm (UTC)
I added you to my friends list because I love your icons and I really enjoyed your Daniel/Vala vid. :) thanks for sharing.
Amalthiaamothea on September 1st, 2005 01:34 am (UTC)
The rules say if I want you to friend me back I need to reply here....It's cool having more friends with common interests and I think we do share more than one interest. I also like Lost, Farscape, SGA, SG-1, Smallville, X-Files, writing (mostly fan fiction). I make music vids. :)

I'm also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and rape and I'm not afraid to speak about it either.
Cat: Stargate SG-1 // Above the Sunboutondor on September 1st, 2005 04:02 am (UTC)
The rules say if I want you to friend me back I need to reply here....

I ask for a comment here because I don't always notice when someone adds me or sometimes I have no idea where a person who friended me comes from...

It's cool having more friends with common interests and I think we do share more than one interest. I also like Lost, Farscape, SGA, SG-1, Smallville, X-Files, writing (mostly fan fiction). I make music vids. :)

I will definitely add you. I love to have people with common interests on my friends list. And I love music videos! I'm addicted :)

I'm also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and rape and I'm not afraid to speak about it either.

I'm kind of hypocritical about this one because some sexual abuse I've been victim of I'm not afraid and another one is just this huge weight I have and pretty much no one in my life (offline) knows about it...
Lisa Michelle: John/Aeryn love - bheerfanlmichelle599 on September 5th, 2005 10:14 pm (UTC)

Hey! I want to friend you because I love your Daniel/Vala icons and you're a John/Aeryn shipper. You also have Alias and X-Files as an interest. All my shows, too! :-)

PS. Are you sharing any of your John and Aeryn icons? Very hot.
Cat: Farscape // Lipsboutondor on September 5th, 2005 10:32 pm (UTC)
A Daniel/Vala AND a John/Aeryn shipper? I am so friending you back :D

Check my icons tag for my Farscape icons - click here

I'm currently making more D/V and Vala icons. They should be up tonight.
Mariannainsunshine on September 6th, 2005 04:44 pm (UTC)
I think you're pretty cool, and you are the maker of my default user pic, which I think was made with a stroke of genius. Way to capture the fact that they're waiting for answers that aren't going to come. AWESOME job.

Haha, anyway, I'm going to add you, and I hope you add me back.
Cat: Veronica Mars // Cryingboutondor on September 7th, 2005 12:32 am (UTC)
Thank you :)

I'm adding you back.
ohshocking: Atlantis - Shep/Weir - Sinfulohshocking on September 16th, 2005 02:35 pm (UTC)
Hey, just wanted to let you know I'm friending you :) as we seem to have quite a few interests in common. You don't have to friend me back if you don't want to, it's not a problem, I'll still be able to keep up with your awesome icons etc :D.
Cat: Farscape // Destinyboutondor on September 17th, 2005 02:48 pm (UTC)
When I have 300 people friending me, I'll stop friedning back, but since that's not going to happen anytime soon, I'm definitely friending you back. I like reading people's live. I guess I'm a voyeur lol.
- ohshocking on September 18th, 2005 08:57 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Melmissalee on September 24th, 2005 07:55 pm (UTC)
I would very much like to be added to your friends list! Awesome icons and I'll definitely be checking out the music videos.
Cat: Stargate Atlantis // Heroboutondor on September 24th, 2005 09:46 pm (UTC)
New friend! Added you :)
alexandria_kanaalexandria_kana on September 25th, 2005 12:10 am (UTC)
Friend List
I don't write alot in my journal, most of the time it's just my fanfic, but just looking at your shipping icons I vote for most, only exception is I have never seen Veronica Mars, so that one I have no idea about :)

I love your new Atlantis Vid, and am now trying to find your stories :) The last one I read was really good... the shower one :)

Anyway, hope you add me.

Alexandria_Kana
Cat: Farscape // Aeryn Aloneboutondor on September 25th, 2005 03:50 am (UTC)
Re: Friend List
I've noticed that people tend to ship the same couples :)

I'm glad you enjoyed my video - I'm going to make a new one soon. As for the fics, you won't find any because I've taken them all offline.

I'm adding you back :)

And I really like your icon...
pellucid: wants to kiss herpellucid on October 2nd, 2005 01:05 am (UTC)
Sorry for all the comment-spam in the past five minutes! I've loved your Atlantis stuff and your Daniel/Vala stuff, and now I'm loving your Farscape stuff--would you mind if I friended you? Friend back or not as you wish--I don't mind. ;)
Cat: Stargate SG-1 // Girlfriendsboutondor on October 2nd, 2005 03:37 am (UTC)
Of course I'll friend you back. I love new friends :)
icarus: Temptressicarus_abides on October 3rd, 2005 12:50 am (UTC)
Psst *nudges* I'm planning on friending you and would love for you to do it back if you feel so inclined.

Look at our similar interests yo. You love Farscape. I love Farscape. You're a Sparky fan. I'm a Sparky fan. You're bisexual. I'm... well, at the moment I'm still stuck at 'sexually confused'. But we'll see how that goes.

If you read this and have one of those 'omg, this girl is a freak (or retarded)' I won't take it personally if you don't want to friend me back ;)
Cat: Farscape // Yoursboutondor on October 3rd, 2005 01:02 pm (UTC)
That icon is all kinds of loveliness. You're funny :) I'm friending you right now.
lvp3: regretslvp3 on November 15th, 2005 02:28 pm (UTC)
Hey, I'm going to friend you, if that's okay. Feel free to friend me back if you'd like. :)
Cat: Stargate SG-1 // Vala Knows Betterboutondor on November 16th, 2005 12:41 pm (UTC)
Friended you back :) Welcome to my Friends List.

lol I can be stupid sometimes :D
Tiiafinnstardust on November 15th, 2005 04:46 pm (UTC)
I have added you as well because you seem like an interesting person. I really don't mind bisexuality or seeing the worst side of you. And I also love your fics!
Cat: Evangeline // Beautyboutondor on November 16th, 2005 12:43 pm (UTC)
you seem like an interesting person

You might change your mind when you actually read all the crap I write about.

I added you back. I love new friends :)
- finnstardust on November 16th, 2005 01:01 pm (UTC) (Expand)
csi_freak15 on November 29th, 2005 05:34 pm (UTC)
Pllllllease add me! I love you SGA icons. That show is one of the best on TV right now. I dunno what I'd do without it.

Cathleen. xx
Cat: Stargate Atlantis // Timeboutondor on November 30th, 2005 02:07 pm (UTC)
Of course I will! I'm adding you right now :)
רותם שחר (Ro): shippiness!roothekittykat on December 12th, 2005 03:26 am (UTC)
hi!
*waves*
*friends you*

:)
Cat: Stargate Atlantis // Outboutondor on December 12th, 2005 03:38 am (UTC)
Weeee!

::friends you back::

:)
- roothekittykat on December 12th, 2005 03:40 am (UTC) (Expand)
- boutondor on December 12th, 2005 03:42 am (UTC) (Expand)
- roothekittykat on December 12th, 2005 01:10 pm (UTC) (Expand)
ships100_mod on December 12th, 2005 04:07 am (UTC)
This is the mod from ships100. All three of your claims on the waitlist: John/Aeryn, Lorelai/Luke and John/Elizabeth are open now. If you feel you can handle all three claims at once, go ahead and claim them. If you only want to claim one or two, that's alright as well. It's very well possible that you're already aware of these open claims, I can't remember if I've notified you yet or not.

If you don't claim any/all of these within a week I'll take you off the wait list.

Thanks.
(Anonymous) on December 12th, 2005 09:12 pm (UTC)
plz
wanna be friends